transformational life coaching for young men. Whether you're feeling stuck in a rut, lacking clarity, or struggling to find your true purpose, Oluwaseyi is here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.
My name is Oluwaseyi Akinsola, I am a Speaker and Life Coach passionate about the growth and empowerment of young men in our generation. I educate, enlighten, and empower young men to become exemplary, influential, and purposeful men, husbands, and fathers in life. I have B.Sc. in Accounting from the University of Lagos, Nigeria, and a Master’s degree from Anglia Ruskin University in the United Kingdom.
Identifying the Need
Recognizing the Challenges Faced by Young Men
My journey to helping and equipping young men began with a burden in my heart, seeing young men just coasting through life with no clear purpose or direction. Many young men do not know what to do or how to behave as men, husbands, and fathers but would act as if they knew, so that people would not think less of them as men. Many men are suffering in silence while the majority of others are locked up inside because they are living to the ovation of the gallery of people around them. Many never know what it would be like to live a life that is true to their core and become all that God has created them to be.
Personal Journey and Transformation
Overcoming Self-Doubt and Dependency
I was once a young man that was insecure and had low self-esteem. It was not obvious because I was trying to mask my ignorance and insufficiencies. My situation was so bad that I was in a relationship and could not communicate confidently with my then spouse unless a friend helps out. I lacked self-confidence to say the things I meant to say, and the ones I tried to say, I could not articulate myself well enough. It isn’t a bad idea to seek counsel or ask for advice from people that are more experienced and older than one, but mine was bad because it eroded my ability to make sound decisions for myself. I was dependent on my friend for all the decisions I made. It was so bad that whenever I sent him a message especially regarding an urgent decision I needed to make, and he didn’t respond quickly, I wouldn’t be able to make the decision because I was desperately dependent on him and didn’t have confidence in my own decisions and choices without his intervention.
Inspiring Change and Growth
Empowering Others Through Personal Growth
I'm sure you’re wondering, how did my story change? The relationship eventually crashed and that made me realize my desperation and lack of self-confidence. Deep down, I knew, things must not continue the way they were. So, I sought knowledge, I started listening to messages and audio tapes from accomplished people and taking actions on what I had heard which transformed my life to be who I am today. I also sought to be in the company of people that are intentional and focused about their lives. In addition, I sought for someone that would pour into me, mentor and guide me into becoming all that God has created me to be. I believe there are many young men out there that may have similar experiences to mine but don't know what to do to get out of the rut they are in. Some have even adjusted and accepted such lives as their norm refusing to rise above and be the best that God has created them to be.
My Ability
Journey to Personal Growth
With our coaching program, you'll make steady progress in these areas and witness significant growth and transformation along your journey. Let's work together to unlock your full potential and achieve lasting success.
